let's make sure everything goes nice and smoothly for nseurope Modern's martial debut, mmmkay?
I've got support incoming from at least three to five nations, Merb.
Ergo, IMO the moderators should either void this RP altogether and then we pretend that Meribia never existed, a warmod or some other player should take over playing Meribia's forces for the duration of the war, or the moderation should impose an arrangement where Coronado&co occupy Meribia but are forced to RP all the appropriate consequences, war losses, etc.
In my esteemed opinion, stuff like this happens all too often. Everyone and their uncle jumps in on one little war. If you want to take part, send a smaller contingent or something. For example, I am sending a few thousand rifles and a few APCs to Coro on the down low. You can still RP the war, just dont tip the balance so awkwardly...